Pregnant – Don’t Wait, Start Your Plans Right Now
January 24, 2010 by Robert Seno
Filed under Baby
Being pregnant is the most natural thing in the world and happens to almost every female (and males, in certain animal kingdoms) on the planet. This is a common occurrence and yet not so common in the sense that each pregnancy is a unique experience.
But how do you know you are pregnant? As in everything else, there are signs to look out for. These signs usually come on about a month after conception. The first one is that you miss your monthly menstruation. The second is that you feel nauseous. As a first timer, you may not be aware, but not to other females usually. Experienced ones will be able to tell right away. More signs are getting easily irritated, an appetite loss and easily tired.
Nearly everyone who is pregnant will not be menstruating at that time and most people will be feeling nauseous. The other signs are less ‘pre-requisite’ although most women will experience these symptoms. It is only a matter of which degree these are experienced.
Ideally, you are advised to look into your lifestyle and re-evaluate it prior to getting pregnant. This includes taking note of your diet, daily routine, etc. If change is necessary or even desired, put it into practice three months ahead of getting pregnant. Even better, begin six months earlier in order to take into account the time of transition that you may require.
If this is a big revamp, this is not a long duration at all. The other aspect that affects the time consumed is your ability to adapt. How fast or slow are you in adapting? Make no mistake. This bears no resemblance in completion of physical tasks like tidying up a room. We are talking about habits that require changing and this obviously involves your emotional system, which means that this is not something that responds well to rush or haste. As a matter of fact, this is not about the speed of time. What you need to do is to get into the flow of your own life, new or otherwise.
Assuming that you have areas that call for change, which is the most pressing area? The most pressing area is the one that call you the loudest and therefore, it makes sense to tackle this one. If it seems daunting, tackle it a little at a time. Break down this ‘big’ area into small bits and your task suddenly seems doable right before your eyes.
For example, what is your sleeping and waking pattern? Are you always short of sleep? This deprivation is unnecessary from a natural point of view. Not having enough sleep affects the quality of waking experience. For an optimum life experience, sleep adequately and not only that, your sleep should be quality sleep. In other words, there is no point sleeping over eight hours if some of the time is spent sleeping fitfully because there are unresolved issues in your mind. Do you know that answers come to you while you are in deep sleep? Sleeping unwell helps you in nothing.
Begin your planning way ahead to getting pregnant if possible. You will not be sorry and your bundle of joy definitely deserves this, and so do you (as well as your significant other). Take this as an opportunity to be the person that you have always wanted to be.

